American-Saudi Conversation
I read it in the book and thought should share with you guys. Americans have at least 18 inches difference with each other while having conversation. This difference becomes less when Middle Eastern people are talking to each other. Now consider the scenario when American-Saudi conversation is on.
"Saudi gets closer, American goes back, saudi gets a bit closer again, american goes back a bit again, this goes on and when the conversation ends , American is bullied and Saudi feels insulted."
The moral is that we should know the context (i.e attitude, culture, ethical, internal and external stimuli) of converation. At least should keep in mind the ethics,time and space realities of different backgrounds so that while having conversation this sort of thing dont happen.
"Saudi gets closer, American goes back, saudi gets a bit closer again, american goes back a bit again, this goes on and when the conversation ends , American is bullied and Saudi feels insulted."
The moral is that we should know the context (i.e attitude, culture, ethical, internal and external stimuli) of converation. At least should keep in mind the ethics,time and space realities of different backgrounds so that while having conversation this sort of thing dont happen.
yeh, bring an inchytape next time you talk to me!
Posted by Anonymous | 5:38 PM
*waves at razz*
hey there! thanks for visiting my bloggie! :)
Posted by Anonymous | 8:02 PM
*waves at razz*
hey there! thanks for visiting my bloggie! :)
Posted by Anonymous | 8:11 PM
lol@razz. Alright mate :). I am not a *happy* guy, just always keep that in mind :P...you know what happy means :P.
No problem sid, thanks for visiting here too.
with regards
FM
Posted by Anonymous | 8:23 PM
Good to know that you are not "happy." I agree with your entry. Some gestures mean completely different things in different cultures. For example, thumbs up might mean "eat shit" somewhere. I'm not sure of that, but just an example. A wide open hand facing towards someone's face in our cutlture means "lanat" whereas, it may be a gesture of appreciation or admiration somewhere else. It is quite natural to smile at complete strangers in the US. Smile at one of the 51% of our population, and you're most likely to wind up with a sandal embedded in your forehead, not to mention all her "brothers" who would be honored to treat you. Simle at a stranger from the other portion of the population and you'll get an odd frown on him.
Posted by Anonymous | 1:34 AM
Thumbs up is negative in Greece, it means 'sit on this' (page 88, Murphy). It seems you've been rather unlucky in the business of smiling at the other portion of the population... I get 10x smiles back all the time! :)
Posted by Anonymous | 2:16 AM
Now check this out...
Iraqis are giving passing Americans the "thumbs up" sign, which the troops interpret as a symbol of support. But many veteran travelers insist that the gesture is a crass Middle Eastern insult. How should coalition forces take those skyward thumbs...
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It's true that "thumbs up" traditionally translates as the foulest of Iraqi insults—the most straightforward interpretation is "Up yours, pal!"
Taken from:
http://slate.msn.com/id/2080812
Posted by Anonymous | 2:22 AM
AoA,
Interesting post...I wonder if you can make an american jump off a cliff that way :P
So, you're an NEDian, I 'in-directly' happen to know a friend of yours: Faisal Naseem (saw his name in the team member of IEENED).
Posted by Anonymous | 7:10 PM
Sir, It depends who smiles :), but yeah some gestures that are a sign of goodwill in occident might bring unluckiness in the orient and vice versa. So we should know about them before using them when we are in different time and space.
Faisal: I read the whole article whose link you gave. In that it was mentioned that to take someone's life thumb in downward direction was shown by the King to the comabatants. Remember where we saw that ;)...Gladiator mate...when the King shown that to take the life of Russell Crowe. Anyways...So what do we friends mean when we show them :D...i always take them as a good job but who knows someone might mean inside "take it up into your ... " :D:D and we proudly smile at him :D.
Fallen Angel: WS
Thanks mate, No problem, you can in-directly know me as well :P.
with regards
FM
Posted by Anonymous | 7:50 PM
Wow...thanks for informing us...I'd take care next time...
Posted by Anonymous | 11:07 PM
On the contrary Faisal, it's not from personal experience. My experience of smiling to both portions has been rather delightful.
Posted by Anonymous | 12:54 AM
Quite logical and true too!
Btw you are also linked :)
Posted by Anonymous | 11:58 PM
Quite logical and true too.
Btw you are also linked :)
Posted by Anonymous | 12:01 AM
you will be linked soon just as soon as i get back to blogging, which is after friday morning, i hava *gulp* physics test grrr to study for plus a lab.
and as for yor post, i tend to refrain from commenting on the saudi political/social/anything to do with middle eastern politicains, apparently every time i speak, a rather depressing bitter testimonial comes out
=(
Posted by Anonymous | 6:21 AM